Are you a good friend? How do you know? Take the "how good of a friend are you" quiz and see if you're right.
How Good A Friend Are You?
1. Do you discuss your friends behind their backs?
2. Are you always asking for favors?
3. Do you fight with them often?
4. Do you ever notice that you third wheel your friends when others are around?
5. Have you noticed that you behave differently with others than with your friend?
6. Do you usually become bored and uncaring discussing something important to your friend?
7. Do you ever notice that you speak the most in your conversations with your friends?
8. Do you always give advice, but find your friends' advice to be wanting?
9. Have you ever bullied your friends into seeing from your point of view?
10. Have you ever condescended/belittled your friends in public?
11. Do you get angry when your friend disagrees with you about something?
12. Have you ever stolen from your friend?
13. Have you ever lied to them for purposes other than keeping them from being hurt?
14. Do you usually talk about your success to a friend who is not as successful?
15. Have you ever hit on your friends' crush even when you know your friends like them?
If your answers to numbers 1, 5, 6, 9, 10, 12, 13, 14 and 15 is 'Yes' then, sorry to break it to you kid, but you are not a very good friend. The other questions if answered yes could be unnoticeable traits you have and if your friends point them out to you, then you should make the effort make some changes. As a matter of fact, if through taking this test, you realize these things about yourself, then you need to change, either that or lose all your friends. Here's what to do; make a note of when, where and the different environments in which these behaviors occur ( what we Psychologists call Charting) and think about what you can do better and differently next time. Friends can be valuable and despite what you think, you need them.
No man is an Island⦠ciao!
Image 1- Friendship Bracelets
| |