There are multiple reasons that a guy or girl doesn't call back after their first date with you, some of the things you do wrong may not be noticeable, it may be after the 3 weeks of you waiting by the phone for a call from them that you realize what you have done wrong, so to spare you the pain, here are some tips to help you avoid making your first or second date the last.
1.Don't date your boss (save yourself the tackiness).
2. Don't date your neighbor.
3. Don't date someone you will have to encounter for the rest of your natural life (you know, just in case it doesn't go well).
4. Don't go to the movies, where will you get time to actually connect and know each other? Surely not while youâre scarfing down hot dogs.
5. Texting and social media destroy lives (I've seen it) just don't do it, face to face communication is more effective and romantic.
6. Don't talk about your exes (seriously, donât).
7. Don't talk about how long you usually date someone for.
8. Don't scare away your date with your past.
9. Don't dominate the conversation.
10. Don't kiss on the first date (optional).
11. Don't get drunk (canât stress that enough)
12. Don't talk about family problems (we all have craziness in our families; there is no need to scare away what could be your future wife or husband with such info).
13. Don't pretend to be someone youâre not.
14. Don't sleep with them on the first date (for Godâs sake, don't)
15. Don''t talk about sex, it will seem as if that is the only thing you are interested in and it might annoy your date.
10. Don't kiss on the first date (optional).
11. Don't get drunk (canât stress that enough)
12. Don't talk about family problems (we all have craziness in our families; there is no need to scare away what could be your future wife or husband with such info).
13. Don't pretend to be someone youâre not.
14. Don't sleep with them on the first date (for Godâs sake, don't)
15. Don''t talk about sex, it will seem as if that is the only thing you are interested in and it might annoy your date.
Doâs
1. Do be a gentleman and open the doors for your date.
2. Do be a lady and accept the gentlemanâs offer to open the door for you (drop the independent ladies act or youâll scare him away).
1. Do be a gentleman and open the doors for your date.
2. Do be a lady and accept the gentlemanâs offer to open the door for you (drop the independent ladies act or youâll scare him away).
3. Do go out for Ice- Cream or long walks (if your date is willing)
4. Do hold hands (Itâs romantic and shows a different level of connection).
5. Do talk about commonalities and differences (don't go overboard with the differences though).
6. Do be yourself, there is nothing worst than pretending to be someone youâre not and deceiving your date.
7. Do feed your date; even if it's a sloppy cheese burger, nothing connects two people like good food.
8. Do relax and exude confidence, the most unattractive thing is an overly self conscious date.
9. Do go somewhere special, it shows your date your values and beliefs without explanation.
10. Do something fun and entertaining.
11. Do keep up the conversation, add a little intrigue, donât want to reveal everything your date needs to know on the first date or they wonât need another one, keep it limited but ongoing, and introduce new topics.
12. Do be mutual in the conversation (don't be obnoxious and prattle on about yourself throughout the entire date).
13. Do have a positive attitude, how you display yourself can affect how your date responds to you and nothing is worst than someone on a date that acts as if they donât want to be there.
14. Call your date after they get home to check if they got home safe (if you didn't take them home that is) and arrange another date.
15. Do Communicate.
5. Do talk about commonalities and differences (don't go overboard with the differences though).
6. Do be yourself, there is nothing worst than pretending to be someone youâre not and deceiving your date.
7. Do feed your date; even if it's a sloppy cheese burger, nothing connects two people like good food.
8. Do relax and exude confidence, the most unattractive thing is an overly self conscious date.
9. Do go somewhere special, it shows your date your values and beliefs without explanation.
10. Do something fun and entertaining.
11. Do keep up the conversation, add a little intrigue, donât want to reveal everything your date needs to know on the first date or they wonât need another one, keep it limited but ongoing, and introduce new topics.
12. Do be mutual in the conversation (don't be obnoxious and prattle on about yourself throughout the entire date).
13. Do have a positive attitude, how you display yourself can affect how your date responds to you and nothing is worst than someone on a date that acts as if they donât want to be there.
14. Call your date after they get home to check if they got home safe (if you didn't take them home that is) and arrange another date.
15. Do Communicate.
Results may vary
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